To Give More Joyfully, Than To Take, Not

To give more joyfully, than to take, not because it means refusal of something, that is why that this my vital self-expression. From the book of philosopher E.Fromm "Art to love" It is impossible for the person to live without love and consequently that it is the main choosing force in a life. The life is similar huge, extensively to an infinite stream which falls upon us and bears us with itself. It is impossible to live everything that it bears; it is impossible to be given to this turning chaos of maintenances. Who will try to make it, that will spend and will ruin itself: it leaves nothing, or it will be lost in . It is necessary to choose: to refuse from very many for the sake of rather little; this little should be involved, protected, appreciated, saved, raised and improved. And to it to build the person. Choosing force is love. She "prefers" it, " ", "is stuck", appreciates, protects, solicits and observes fidelity. And the will is only the love tool in this vital making. The will without love is empty, stale, rigid, violent and, the main thing, is boundless to good and harm.