Saturday, September 27, 2008

Men Consider Questions As The Reference To Them

Men consider questions as the reference to them behind the information. Therefore men ask questions on personal themes much less often. They think: if she wants to tell something she will tell. And the woman thinks: if I do not ask it, he will think that to me all is indifferent. For the man questions - importunity display, and for women - a way of expression of friendliness and care. Who encourages the interlocutor? Women say "yes" and "h'm" if wish to encourage the interlocutor is more often. The husband sometimes understands these sounds as the consent of the wife with it. Later he, possibly, realises that thereby it simply supported conversation. On the other hand, the wife can feel the indifferent relation to it from outside the husband of that he seldom says encouraging words. Who interrupts? Remarks during conversation usually afford men. That interrupt them as it seems to them is often unpleasant to women. Sometimes they answer similar remarks with a tacit protest. Here this distinction of perception also becomes one of the reasons of discontent of many wives when they speak: "He never listens".

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